While it’s true that I do love a sharp dressed man, it’s the realness found in a bit of disheveledness that is most irresistible to me. I claim to have no fashion sense, which is true to a certain extent, but I generally do know what is socially acceptable; I just ignore it 😉
It’s understandable then, why the Robert Herrick poem Delight in Disorder, is a favorite:
A sweet disorder in the dress kindles in clothes a wantonness;
A lawn about the shoulders thrown into a fine distraction;
An erring lace, which here and there enthralls the crimson stomacher;
A cuff neglectful, and thereby ribbons to flow confusedly;
A winning wave, deserving note in the tempestuous petticoat;
A careless shoe-string, in whose tie I see a wild civility;
Do more bewitch me, than when art is too precise in every part.
–yes, I know disheveledness is not a word but if Richard can weigh himself down with multiple strappy bags, I can use made up words 😀